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Ceremony Readings

by Stacy Ochsman

What are ceremony readings? Are they right for you? Where can you find an appropriate reading?

Some weddings incorporate lots of guests and family members into the ceremony by including readings. On the flip side, many weddings don’t have any participation outside of the officiant and the couple.

Having people read at your wedding can be a nice way to incorporate more people into your wedding party, at least, unoffically. It can also be a nice way to include family members and friends who are not able to participate in the actual bridal party.

What is right for you? Where do you find readings that are appropriate?

892247_reading_a_book.jpgEssentially, having someone read at your ceremony is a very personal decision. The person speaking has to be a special person in your life and the material read should be relevant and special. It is usually prose or poetry that has special meaning, typically about love, relationships, friendship and life. They often reflect the religious beliefs of the couple.

Reading Material

Most readings have something to do with love. The actual reading does not need to mention weddings. To find a reading appropriate for the situation, consider books and poems you have read. Is there a great love story you like? Chose a passage that has meaning to you. It is okay if your reading means more to you than the guests. Remeber, it is your wedding. Ask friend and family if there is anything they recommend. It can even be a monologue from a movie or a show.

Who should read?

When considering who should read at your ceremony it is important to consider a few things. Be sure the people you ask are comfortable speaking in public. They should understand that it is important to read clearly and project their voice. And, a reader will sound more at ease and read better if they are more familiar with the reading. Be sure they have plenty of time to become familiar with the material.

If you really want to have a reading at your ceremony but can’t seem to find the right piece, visit The Book Stacks, written by JM or Genre Fiction, written by Janet for some ideas.


Posted in Ceremonies For You, General, LINKS on October 22nd, 2007

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